I had a great conversation today with my friend on what makes a bad girl and its got me thinking….lol Take Angelina Jolie for instance for me shes the sexiest woman on the planet, not just because of those lips and perfectly created face but her whole essence of being a woman her manner …mmmmmm
She oozes sex appeal and shines………..she knows what she wants and goes for it, to some people its wrong and she was seen as the marriage wrecker by many who all favoured the girl next door Jennifer, but…….
It takes two to tango, and Brads a grown man (and sexy as hell), do you spend the rest of your natural life with someone who you love but are not in love with or move on and follow your soul to feel alive and live your life to its full ……. mmmmmmm
This lady is a powerful female and knows what she has but its also her whole mannerism, her confidence, i don’t see her as a femme fatale, i see her as a strong woman who doesn’t care what society says she goes her own way in life, being different by being herself and enjoys being a woman…..
She has her own values and does her bit for society in many ways so why is she labelled a bad girl, for a few tattoos and a wind in her hair outlook ……
What guy or girl on the planet wouldn’t want a night with such a woman, i know i would …. lol… if shes as free spirited in her sexual manner as she is in life, brads a very lucky man ……..
Then there is poor Britney, shes ridiculed by the press for being the good catholic kitten turned into the cat…
then smeared all over the press every time she has a bad day….. don’t we all get them, some days when you have more important things to do or feeling stressed we put ourselves on the back burner, and forget there may be the paparazzi outside waiting to catch you emptying the bin……lol….give her a break… she gets hurt and used like the rest of us and in life we learn by our mistakes……..
Most of Britney’s problems stem from the fact that shes been used so much, the fame has brought with it a burden, men and hangers on, who is a genuine friend to her and are they friends to gain something other than friendship ….. who does she trust…….. shes still so young……..
She married a true bad boy who then proceeded to tum his head at everything female in sight except his wife ……. its all a matter of confidence, and shes had the stuffing knocked out of hers that’s why i believe Paris Hilton is good for her,(no not for the no knickers bit) but that fact Paris doesn’t care less about what anyone thinks about her and does opposite to what shes pushed to do ……… good on ya… lol
she has the wealth, a strong Independence, and huge sex appeal and simply enjoys her, every days a party lifestyle…….. who are we to judge, i don’t …… and if you are one of those judgers why ?
is it that it really does show up how boring your own lives really are ..
Society tries to calm them down to fit their own needs ..
A bad girl Ive worked out is a woman who’s Good at it …
Shes free spirited a true independent woman, showing off her sensuality and not afraid of feeling alive and taking risks …….. lives life for the moment ……
She’ll be the one smiling when she gets to her armchair memories….
as you have only one life to live……..
Good girls go to heaven ………..Bad girls get everywhere …….. lol
We had a night out last night ….
With a difference …
Neither of us fancied anything noisy so we decided to just go for a long walk ..
I have to say, it was an amazing night ……
we ended up at the beach under the stars …
It was wonderful the stars were out in full force …
Watching the clouds clear you could see the sand light up when the moon shone through, creating a really warm welcoming feeling……..
Listening to the waves break softly washed away any other thoughts except then and that moment, and to our delight we watched a huge shooting star perform its last spectacular display which just added a magical feeling, it was as if they knew ……
Through all the stress and everyday life, we tend to forget that its the things that cost nothing that really can give the most back …..
and last night proved that , we came away with smiles nearly as big as the moon, and left all the troubles to wash away with the tide ……
There we layed on a deserted beach, with our picnic drinking in life ……….
What better way to feel good could there be, than being high on lifes wonderful pleasures…
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Time … its so precious….
people are so busy within their lives, just cant seem to find enough time ,
working routines, an endless struggle of going through the motions,
we all have to go through this ritual , a need to eat and pay bills …
but theres more to life that this .. you just have to look a little closer……
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when we are all placed back into the mother earth,
will we have been so driven by society we’ve missed out ……….
feelings, experiences, enjoyment , being part of life’s mysterious question,
what will tomorrow bring ?
the joy at experiencing those simple things in life ……
watching those early birds catching their worms…….
or watching the sunrise, bringing with it a huge smile to your face…
just sitting back staring at the stars, deep in thought……
these things make the best starts and ends to your day,
it helps get that work done a little faster, and has you smiling inside ……
all these wonderful things are free…….
all they cost is a little of your time ……………

Weve had a brilliant weekend, everybody feels so good today …
What a brilliant start to the week ……
Ive managed to get photoed all the dresses for my new range so im very happy ..
Its not til you see your work all together that you realise what youve achieved…
My design room is looking more and more homely everyday and im loving being there …..
The patterns are flowing freely and im smiling away as i work …….
The sun is shining away through my window this morning so im gonna get the computer work done and get myself back up there ….
This week i have the beach coming and 2 nights out ive really been looking forward to ….
The blossom is out on the trees and everything is finally breathing new life, i love the spring its my favourite part of the season everythings coming back to life…………
This winters been a harsh one, but i feel so optimistic now, its my time soon , its getting closer ….
My time to shine …….
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